Here's kids for ya!

So my son has been doing a really good job at the going potty thing by himself. No more having to clean his pants every day...
So the other day he is going potty and I asked him what was taking so long. He says "Mommy I am wipin my butt" I said "Why baby, do you need help?" "No mommy I like to wipe my butt!". So of course he gets candy for that one!
But lately he has become a little too independent... I was downstairs watching TV and he had gone upstairs because he wanted to go potty upstairs. About 5 minutes later he is screaming hysterically, so i run upstairs as fast as I can... I try to open the door but he has locked it so I use my nail get it open and step into.... water. He had flooded my toilet. And he, as he has always been, is VERY afraid of his own poopy... So needless to say I had to clean the mess and mop up the water and do more laundry.
I'm laughing and he is crying and saying "Mommy, I so sorry ", But I just cant stop laughing to tell him it is OK.
It was just a funny day.
So I am back to the funny stories of everyday life.
More where that came from.

 ☮  Peace!  ☮

My Papa

Not something anyone ever wants to read about family... Obituary... 


FINK, ROLAND D.,83 
Ocala - Roland D. Fink, age 83, of Ocala, FL passed away Tuesday, December 29, 2009. Roland was born in Miami, FL on July 16, 1926. He was raised in Miami and graduated from both Miami High School and the University of Miami where he received a Bachelor degree in Business Administration. Roland served in the U.S. Navy during WWII. He met and married Ruth Presnell. They were married for over 50 years and together they raised four children. He worked for the F.B.I as a Field Agent and more recently at Union Oil Co. as a Sales Rep. He was a Presbyterian. Survivors include his sons Roland and Jim Fink both of Ocala; daughter Susan Johnson also of Ocala; 10 grandchildren; and five great grandchildren. Roland was predeceased by his wife Ruth and daughter Linda. A memorial service will be held at Hiers-Baxley Funeral Services, 910 E. Silver Springs Blvd, Ocala on Tuesday, January 5, 2009 at 7:00pm.

Heaven

A lot has change in the past few days... My grandfather passed away yesterday. He fell outside that night while taking the trash out and was found that morning. By the time he got to the hospital his body temperature was down to 70 degrees and they tried to bring it back up and once it reached 90 degrees, he had a heart attack and they couldn't bring him back. It has been hard but I know he is in a better place now with my grandmother and my Mama. So he is happy now. No longer lonely. But it still hurts to know he is no longer here. 

R.I.P Mimi and Papa. 

Heaven is just too full of people that I love... 

**Self Esteem Issues**

Take a look at this video...

We look in magazines everyday wishing we had this or that or looked like her or him.

This is why we wish that...

This is how they look so amazing...

Dove Evolution from TubularGoldmine - Video

See Tristan (my son) on Santa's List

This is just so cute!

I can't wait for Tristan to wake up and see it! 

Tristan made Santa's List 

"http://family.go.com/santas-list/video/177094-what_a_feeling/" - 

You can Send your Picture, or your child's picture to Santa and See Which List You've Made This Year.

One of those little things that kids seem to really appreciate. :)

Merry Christmas!

Christmas Time.

So this year I have been quite the slacker... I have not put up a tree or any lights... the neighbors put some lights around our apartment but I have not done anything. My reasoning behind this is not that I am a bah-hum-bug but we have such a smaller area now with our apt that I have wanted to wait until next Christmas when I could really go all out. I know, that is really selfish... if it makes any difference I had my son color a Christmas tree....
I have just been in a little bit of a slump...


My Mimi died 3 years ago and lately I have been thinking alot about her. The other day I was at my Papa's house and I asked him about her ring... what ever happened to it. He didn't know. I had always wanted that ring to have when I was married and to pass down... and I know that is so selfish but well needless to say he doesn't know where it is and doesn't know who has it. So it kind of bummed me out because I dont want to ask any of my family about it... whoever has it wanted it and probably would not have any sympathy for my wants...
So I have just been kind of down about the lot of it.


But this Christmas is one of my favorites because I have someone who loves me and wants to be with me.


So needless to say I am happy. And loved.


Just the thoughts for the day...

R.I.P Mimi. I miss you and love you!

This is me, my little sister, My mommy (R.I.P) and my Mimi (R.I.P.)

I miss these days.

Goodnight all. Merry Christmas.

Hug the Ones You Love.

So today has been such a long day… Didn’t get hardly any sleep last night and then today I was lookin around on myspace and remembered a few things.

September 24, 2007 A friend of mine, whom I had known since we were kids was killed. Murdered. Before that, I had never really known anyone who had been murdered. And then, all of a sudden I did. We were really close as kids… untill I started dating this guy (mind you, we were in maybe 6th grade) that she liked and it was war then. But we made up. Right before she died we had started talking again. And then one day, I got a phone call that she had been murdered.

I went to her funeral but shut off all of my feelings. I was with my ex and my parents and I can’t be real in front of my parents. I left quickly because of my ex, he didn’t wanna stay. So instead of mourning, I ran away from the pain. They asked people who knew her to stand up and say some things to her or about her… I should have stood up. I should have stood up and said

“Tiffany, you should be here now! I’m sorry we fought. I’m sorry for breaking the girls rule, never date a guy yur friend likes. Im sorry you are gone and we are still here. Im sorry that we never got a chance to finally get together and put the past where it belonged. I remember you, with braces, playing at church, running around at church camp and your smile. Your big smile. “

Thats what I should have said. I should not have sat in silence… I should not have left.

I think it is time for me to visit her.

She would have been 22 this year, December 7th was her Birthday.

Time goes so quickly.

So hug the ones you love, tell them how much you love them and never let a day go by where you don’t do something that one day you will regret not doing…

XOXO.

R.I.P Tiffany.